INDI “IT’S NOT WORKABLE “

by | Apr 30, 2022 | ANGST OF A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN

Back in school  “Workshop” was a 4 unit course that was compulsory in order to advance to the next class. It didn’t matter how well you did in all the other courses; if you failed “Workshop” that was an automatic carryover.Workshop was the annual production, put together by the entire class. Easy peasy you would say, seeing as we were all theater arts undergrads. 

Thankfully the lecturers  overtime knew who contributed what and how much, and there were extra marks for outstanding performances, for the most part we would swim – or sink as a team. 

We had an entire semester to prepare for  1hour (on the average) performance.  An entire semester; anything from 3months to even a year depending on whether on not ASSU went on strike.
Every year, without fail, we would spend 3 quarters of that time bickering over “what” should be done, “who” would do it and “how”.

There were those who were gifted with ideas and skills and would give of them freely, while there were those who made it their ministry to shoot everything down without providing  an alternative plan.The word “unworkable” became a running joke…

“Okay… lets try this”. 

Them: “No”.”Why””Its not workable”

Ok why is it not workable?

Them: “It’s just not”

Ok, bring your own suggestion.

Them: We dont have one.

So let’s try this now.

Them: “No; its not workable”.

And on and on it would go. Three weeks to work shop

Indi “its not workable”  would fall in line, and the very ideas that THEY had dismissed as not workable are the ones adopted by all unilaterally. ideas that had been discarded weeks prior, that we could have been working. at the end of the day it didn’t matter much who did what. we were scored as a group. we would sink or swim… together.

The moral of the story – just get on with it.

The intentional dumbing down

by | Apr 30, 2022 | ANGST OF A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN

One of the most unattractive things to witness is the intentional dumbing down a convo . .

People are deep in debate on a serious (-or not) subject. offering fresh perspective and instead of you to shut up, and try and keep up , and hopefully this time learn something new; you open your ignorant mouth and say something innocuous…. and utterly stupid. 

Don’t mind the handful (or crowd) laughing with (at?) you ….its not funny. It’s an attempt to disguise your lack of intellectual depth which really only serves to further expose it.There was never a wiser man than he who was silent.

ANGST OF A MIDDLE AGES WOMAN…

Sisi Mi

by | Apr 30, 2022 | ANGST OF A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN

Sisi mi…
You will not always be starry eyed and naive…you will not always be impressionable…there will come a time when things will begin to matter…big, small, it doesn’t matter, what will matter is that the yatter to you.
You will begin begin to question things…”why do I believe this…why do I think that, why is this so…?”

When this happens, “they say” or “people think” or “That’s how it’s done” will no longer cut it…
Your decisions and choices will will be based on strong personal conviction (hopefully) based on sound judgement…
It’s called an #awakening…
Try not to make too many fundamental decisions until this occurs..

ANGST OF A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN…